In our culture, we are brainwashed to think women like nice guys. Your parents probably taught you to always compliment women, always pay for their meals, and always listen to a girl yap on and on. Society teach us to respond to a woman’s carping with, “Yes, dear.” I’m about to barf. This may work if you happen to be a woman’s type. But if you’re not, a woman will inevitably put you in “friend zone.” Even if this does work at first, overtime a woman’s attraction towards will abate. That’s because when a man cedes a woman’s every whim, she doesn’t think he’s nice and wonderful. Instead, she perceives him as a groveling gimp. Does this mean chivalry is dead? Does it mean you should never open doors for women? No. Not at all. You … Read entire article »

Most men make one of two mistakes with women and it squelches all attraction. Mistake # 1: Showing Too Much Interest When the collective “nice guy” likes a woman, he incessantly ogles at her, pays her compliments, and fondles her. As a result, she thinks he’s needy and loses interest. Mistake # 2: Constantly Pushing Women Away This is the bane of the consummate bad boy. Around women, he oozes languor. Instead of complimenting them, he makes fun of them. The physical affection he gives them teeters on zero. A Middle-ground: Two Steps Forward & One Step Back The master Lothario always takes two steps forward and one step back. Let’s break this down by starting with compliments and insults. A Lothario would start off with a small compliment – maybe about her clothes. Then he’d make a … Read entire article »

Women test men all the time, both consciously and unconsciously. If you aren’t aware of these tests, you will fail. As a result, women will lose attraction and respect for you. Since this is a short article, I cannot lay out every test women throw at men. But I can share a few. Test # 1: Fishing For Compliments Have you ever had a woman ask you if she looked fat? Most men have. Do you know how most men respond? “No, you don’t look fat. You look great.” Why do men do this? There are several reasons. One is that they don’t want to offend the girl. They want her to think they are a nice guy. Two is that they are trying to win points with the girl. In other words, they want the girl to … Read entire article »

You may think that based your looks, age, bank account, and social status that there’s a caliber of females you can – or cannot – attract. If you think this, you’re dead wrong. Don’t feel bad. Most men think this way as well – and that’s the problem. The number one factor that determines which girls you attract and which ones you don’t is your belief system. You could have Brad Pitt’s mug. But if you’re lacking in confidence, you will never attract the women of your dreams. On the other hand, if you’re uglier than Joe Pesci but your confidence is through the roof, you’ll get any woman you want. So how do you become confident? Easier said than done, right? Well, not so fast. Developing confidence can be easy if you know how to … Read entire article »